4. Sort the bills
It can be really hard to organize the bills after losing a spouse, especially when he or she used to handle them. However, someone has to do this unwanted job. Try to think about a new system of organizing your bills.
For example, you can create one box or tray for unopened mail and make sure every piece goes into that box. Look through the checkbook or online banking account for past or recurring payments. If you have access to your spouse’s email account, look for electronic notifications of bills due.
Make a list of all the utility, credit card, rent or mortgage and other bills you can find. Cancel any subscriptions or services that pertain only to your spouse. And understand that each service may have a different process for cancelling contracts. Car leases and mobile-phone contracts can be particularly infuriating to exit.
